Tantra Massage Therapy

Tantra massage therapy is for you if:

• you want to feel the touch of unconditional love

• you want to experience mysterious sensations of tantric touch

• you want to broaden your horizons

• you want to open your heart

• you want to explore and gain your sensitivity

• you want to receive tenderness and caress

• you feel lonely

• you want to discover deeper levels of you soul

• you suffer from anxiety

• you need to release stuck emotions

• you feel physical or emotional tension

• you want to regain your sexual (life force) energy

• you have some slight issues with sexual function

• etc

 

*** It is important to understand that every person will have their own individual experience. One person may immediately feel all the benefits of Tantra massage, while another person needs more time. This depends on the state of the nervous system, personal sensitivity, emotional background, expectations, and readiness for this experience.

 

To receive the full benefits of Tantra massage that your body is ready for at this moment, it is important to let go of all expectations, to stay present,  switch off the mind, to breathe as the therapist says, to direct all your attention into the body.

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Tantra massage therapy is NOT for you if:

• you are not able to respect the boundaries of the giver

• your main goal is "happy end"

• you are not ready to focus on your inner world and sensations in your body

• you are only interested in touching the different parts of the therapist's body or watching her naked body

• I do not accept clients with abnormal sexuality, deviations, kinks, fetishism. 

 

Contraindications:

• disorders of the heart, kidneys and liver

• genital, skin and infectious diseases

• mental disorders

• acute inflammatory processes in the body

• oncology

• high blood pressure

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Tools that I use and mix, according to the client's needs and state

• Grounding massage

• Bodywork to balance the posture and improve breath

• Empty Hand Touch

• Touch Games to increase safety (for sexually or physically abused persons)

• Fascia Release

• Triggerpoint Massage

• Kundalini Activation

• Mouth and throat de-armouring

• Abdominal de-armouring

• Yoni Healing

• Sacred Spot

• Lingam healing

• Lingam activation

 

During the Tantra massage session the giver and receiver are without clothes. Session is performed on a soft mat.

 

 

Lingam massage and ejaculation
Lingam massage is a gentle but powerful part of Tantra massage. It is about pleasure, orgasm, and can also help with slight issues with sexual performance. The main idea of this massage is not to follow strict techniques, but to listen to the natural rhythm and energy of the lingam.

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​There are many talks about ejaculation in Tantra. It is important to understand that ejaculation is a result of an orgasm, and not an orgasm itself. These two processes have different mechanisms. A man can have an orgasm without ejaculation. Almost all men have no idea about this, and they haven’t developed this ability. For most men, experiencing orgasm without ejaculation is still not possible, because this ability is not developed. That is why in my sessions ejaculation is allowed, as it is a natural part of the process for the majority of men.

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It is also important to understand that in the context of Tantra, orgasm (with or without ejaculation) is a deep and conscious process. But if a man uses orgasm only as a quick way to release stress or sexual tension, then it is not about Tantra at all.

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In my sessions, ejaculation is welcome if it happens in a natural and easy way, as part of the body’s flow. But if the lingam does not become erect or does not ejaculate, the therapist will not push for an erection or ejaculation, because real therapy means allowing the body to do what feels natural.

 

However, in general, ejaculation is not the goal of lingam massage at all. In Tantra therapy, the practice of abstaining from ejaculation is used to develop multi-orgasmic ability, to support masculinity by preserving testosterone, and to help a man become more present and loving.

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​If you want to know more, you can read the article “To Cum or Not to Cum” written by my gorgeous teacher Lin Holmquist at this link. I really recommend this article to men.